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I can't find a Church where I can be comfortable.


Thank you for sharing your situation. I am sorry to hear that you are unable to find a Church where you feel comfortable. It is difficult to speak into your situation without knowing your personal circumstances. 

The bible tells us that the Church does not exist just to make us comfortable. If you have tried to attend many and dislike them all perhaps you have the wrong idea of what Church is meant to be and do.

From reading Acts 2-4 we can see that the Church is a group of God's people who meet under qualified leadership, teach the bible, pray together, have fellowship together and carry out baptism/communion and the great commission to reach the world for the glory of God. All of the secondary issues like worship style, meeting time and place are not as important at the above.

Hebrews 10:25 does tell us about not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing near. From this, we are expected to meet together, and church is supposed to be a place of encouragement toward one another. it is possible that a lack of encouragement is the reason why you do not feel comfortable in your Church. 

We ask that you please reply why it is that you are uncomfortable. Also if you are happy to share where you live then we may be able to put you in touch with a Church we know and where we hope you will feel comfortable.

I do hope this general answer to your question goes some way to helping you find peace with God through Jesus Christ our Lord. If you want to know more about what Jesus has done for you please watch the video on the main part of our site:

In closing, I want to encourage you to get more involved with your local church. It would be good to speak to a Christian leader or another trusted church individual regarding your question. I know they would be delighted to further answer you as well as offer prayer and support as you continue your spiritual journey:

Please use our Interactive Answer Matrix and feel free to ask another question. Our helpful staff are praying for you and waiting to try and answer to you from the Bible, and will be delighted to tell you more about Jesus Christ the Lord, the Saviour of the world.

*All Scripture references are taken From The English Standard Version of the Holy Bible unless stated otherwise

*If anything in this answer affects you directly, then please feel free to call our confidential prayer line in the UK on 0845 4567729, where trained Christian volunteers will take your call and pray both for you and with you. If you are outside of the UK then you may submit your request for prayer on line at

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