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What is it like being brainwashed? Why do Christians say daft words and "speak" in languages they don't know? They wouldn't speak like this in work. Who can translate these languages? Why do Christians always quote the bible when proving its authority? Can your God stop me sending emails like this to you?


Thank you for asking these questions. I hope you agree that I have taken the time to reply to you in love and with respect. If you have had a negative experience of the Church or from Christians in any way then I am sorry for this and hope you can see that Jesus does not want his followers to upset people.

Firstly I do not believe that I or any other genuine Christians have been brainwashed. There are around 2 billion Christians on the planet today. If we are all brainwashed then for what purpose? The Christian faith is about loving God, loving your neighbour, knowing peace and forgiveness, serving the poor, knowing we can go to a better place when we die, to name but a few. No one should be benefiting from this work in a negative or abusive way. Why would anyone want to brainwash people to do these good things?

The roots of the Christian faith date back around 4,000 years to before Abraham. This faith has been alive and well among billions of people for thousands of years. The truth of the message of Christianity is something that is life transforming and world shaping.

The message of Christianity is there is a God who loves us, but our wrong separates us from him, and that Jesus came to live a perfect life and die in our place for our sin.

When someone's life is changed by having a faith in Jesus, they are given the gift of the Holy Spirit as a promise of the new life to come in heaven. Some people then can speak in a new prayer language. Tongues is essentially a different word for languages. This means that when some Christians pray, they are speaking in a different language, be this an earthly or heavenly language. We have answered more about this in a previous answer here:

Some people also have the gift of interpretation of these tongues and share the prayer or message with the Church. I have experienced this happening and it is very powerful.

You are right to say that Christians wouldn't use certain words in a work environment as it says in the Bible that they are mainly used as a prayer language just for the believers and God. This is why you may only hear it spoken in a Church environment. It actually says that if an unbeliever like you is present, they will be confused! (1 Corinthians 14:23)

Regarding the authority of the Bible we have also written a longer answer which you can read here:

Essentially we believe the Bible is the inspired word of God and we should live by it as authoritative (2 Timothy 3:16). You may find it difficult to take when we quote bible verses to prove its authority but logic tells us it can be no other way - if the Bible is God's word and the highest authority in the world, then it can only be proved by itself; if some other thing could prove it then that other thing would automatically be a higher authority.

I believe that God could stop you from sending emails, but I think it's a good thing you have done so. This is why this website exists, to try and answer peoples questions about God and Christianity. I find it interesting that wanted to ask these questions in the first place, almost as though part of you is searching for an answer and you came to us for help. I encourage you to keep searching and asking questions, and I believe you will find your answers in Christ Jesus. 

I do hope this general answer to your question goes some way to helping you find peace with God through Jesus Christ our Lord. If you want to know more about what Jesus has done for you please watch the video on the main part of our site:

In closing, I want to encourage you to get more involved with your local church. It would be good to speak to a Christian leader or another trusted church individual regarding your question. I know they would be delighted to further answer you as well as offer prayer and support as you continue your spiritual journey:

Please use our Interactive Answer Matrix and feel free to ask another question. Our helpful staff are praying for you and waiting to try and answer to you from the Bible, and will be delighted to tell you more about Jesus Christ the Lord, the Saviour of the world.

*All Scripture references are taken From The English Standard Version of the Holy Bible unless stated otherwise

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